Be My Ultimate Submissive
By Mistress Alina Sky
Hello Subbies, Pets, Slaves, Devotees and wanna be pets!Today you will learn how to Be My Ultimate Submissive!
I am Mistress Alina Sky. If you haven’t met me before, I amYoung Hot, Real Lifestyle Mistress and Kinkster Extraordinaire, here to present you with the Utlimate Submissive Guide as to how to become MY perfect Submissive!
You will not belive how EASY it is to slip into a lifestyle of worshipping a real hot, experienced and kinky Mistress that really LOVES owning you in every way. Your life will take on a whole new purpose! (Which, let’s face it, a lot of you desperatly need).
Be My Ultimate Submissive
I’ve been in the Mistress Biz since I was eighteen years old. My client lists include men, women, new and experienced submissives, that are all super important to me.
So I know the point of view of my submissives, no matter their level.
I know that Serving a sexy, young and kinky Dominant Mistress like myself, can be a very fulfilling lifestyle. I invest a lot in my clients, and work on being there for them very long term.
I’ve learned that sometimes they may belooking for someone to fix them, and make them feel complete. Give them balance and purpose. And I certainly am capable of that. I will give you that purpose and structure that you need in life, and on anyt level that you seek it as your Mistress.
When you translate this to real life, the truth is that being a sub in a BDSM relationship can be quite overwhelming, as it is a lot of work: There are many demands on a submissive. physically, mentally, and sexually.
My main purspose is to teach and work with submissives long term so they successfully meet the challenge, in serving me and in serving their real world partner, if they so choose to move their BDSM lifestyle into a 24/7 commitment.
So let’s dive in and let me teach you the basics of what it is to be an optimal submissive to a Mistress like me and in your every day life if you so choose. And be the best you can be in a fully functioning D/s relationship.
Be My Ultimate Submissive
First, What A Submissive Should NOT be:
I’m starting with what a submissive isn’t and should never become, since it’s honestly of utmost important to me, a True Lifestyle and LDW Dominatrix. And honestly, no matter how hard core of a sub you are, there will ALWAYS be a need for clear rules, limits, bounderies and understanding. So here goes.
- My submissives are NOT my doormat, nor do I EVER use them as my personal ATM machine.
- A submissive should never be forced to serve. A REAL dom like myself would only want a submissive who adores and truly desires to to be mine and my truly owned.
- Being a sub, is NOT an immediate consent to be mistreated used and abused.
- BDSM always. always. always. has limits and safe words which are SACRED
- If you are a sub in a D/s relationship, PLEASE be mindful to whom you give your submission to: as submission needs to be EARNED first.
- A true Dom will buld a trust, pay close attention to YOUR needs and feelings, bounderies and interests as a submissive, and will never abuse you or force you to do anything you do not wish to do.
What is A submissive, Their Goals and Prerogatives
The actual definition of a submissive is as folows:
A submissive is a person (of any gender/sexcual orientation) who is consensually obedient by nature, utterly compliant to their partner in every way.
A sumbissive loves to give up control to their Dominant. craved being used (in many different way, which is specific to each sub)
A submissive will take on many different roles or a combination of roles, Here are a few examples:
- Pet
- Property
- Slave
- Household Service
- Submissive Spouce
- Masochist
As a submissive, you must strive and work towards pleasing your Dominant in ALL things and Every way. It will ususally mean that a submissive will consent to give up some personal preferences, freedoms and certain habits.
It is fairly common for a submissive to possess a quiet, almost shy personality, especially when they are in the presence of their Master, Mistress or Dominant Owner.
Submissives must ber obedient to their Dom, and accept discipline when needed or when they are out of line.
As my submissive, you must aleays conduct yourself within the manner I have set forth and you’ve aggreed to. You must be respectful, obedient and ready to serve at all times, because your behaviour and conduct as my submissive is a direct reflection on me as your Mistress and Owner.
Be My Ultimate Submissive:
Challenges You Might Face As A Submissive
As a Lifestyle Dominatrix, I encourage my submissives to be as communicative as possible, and bring forth their issues or concerns should those arise, at any time.
All sumbissives face challanges from time to time, it’s not easy to serve your Master or Mistress when you are not in the mood, tired, or have other pressing matters like career, financial worries, and other hurdles life throws your way.
So I am not a Mistress that demands her submissives serve her all the time, nor do I book high session density, because I always tell my submissives time and time again:
Do not commit to a serving schedule you cannot keep up with. Be realistic and mindful of YOUR financial and emotional well being first, and stay with a schedule and time frames that truly work for you, don’t make grandiose promises of constent servitude you will never be able to keep.
I don’t need all of that. I will work with your session schedule and requests, as many or as few that you need to reach your submissive goals and maintenance of your submissive lifestyle.
Can A sub Lose Themselves To Their Dom?
I truly believe that any submissive can be independed, confidant, capable and accomplished individual, with their own full home and carreer life. In fact, most of my submissives (I work with men, women and couples) are EXACTLY that.
I truly believe the submissives are absolutly NOT weak at all, quite the opposite.
They are CHOOSING to be part of the BDSM lifestyle, as submissives of all kinds.:
I truly see their submission to me, or to any masters of their choosing as a treasure they gift me with. And what’s more, I know that being totally subserviant to someone can be extreamly intimidating at first, so I always advise my submissives to start small, know your limits and communcate them clearly. Never be afraid to have well define bounderies. and you will grow as a submissive step by step.
Please always remember, when you choose to obey, it can be highly satisfying and so empowering. You will chose to obey and serve me as your mistress at all times will be very rewarding to us both.
Enhance Your Submissive Capabilities
It is very important to remember that a submissive must always keep in mind that their main purpose is servitude and worship, they must ALWAYS strive to make their Dom’s life easier NOT harder or more challanging.
Even if you are technically a submissive “brat” your goal should always be to make your Dom’s life a lot more interesting, fun and challanging ONLY in a good way, not in a draining annoying way.
The Best submissives make sure that they anticipate and proactively work towards predicting what their Dominant needs and wants are at any stage or timeframe in the relatjionship. and fullfil all those needs happily and enthusiastically. and fulfill it enthusiastically.
Many of my personal submissives love wearing my oownership collar.
You should know that even a discreet collar worn in public, truly helps keeping you int he submissive slave or owned pet mindset.
You are My Property, you are owned by me, and thus you are a full representation of my as Your Mistress, so you should always, as my submissive, take great pride in keeping yourself fit and able to serve at the best of your ability and top of your game.
Make sure that you take great care of your body and mind, so that your servitide is always of high value and level.
Please remember to always
- Getting sufficient sleep – I need you rested!
- Exercising regularly – or be as active as you can
- Eating a healthy diet – your good health starts here!
- Dressing properly – or wearing certain garments I wish for you to wear for me
- Having good hygiene and grooming – Very Important !!!
Be My Ultimate Submissive:
Get Your submissive checklist
If you wish, when you make a call with me and mention this blog post, I will either read you or email you the Submissive Check list and Cheat Sheet so you can have those guidlines close at hand.
I always strive to be the best Dominant I can be, and I love helping submissives achieve the best level of submission, servitude and being owned by a Dominant of their dreams. The BDSM lifestyle is my own personal lifestyle 24/7, on the phone and in real life. I hope you can join me, either by offering your devitoion and lifetime servitide or occassional sessions, I love all those options.
Submission requires strength, physically, emotionally, mentally. Well said and I am thankful there are dominants in the world that think as you describe and I have found many in the LDW empire.