Becoming a Dominatrix Awakened My Inner Goddess –
And Helped Me Empower My Clients
Life has a funny way of unfolding in a way that every wrong turn you might make will end up with you exactly where you need to be.
One of my favorite qoutes is “let go of the life you planned to have and live they life you were MEANT to live”.
This is to say that you need to trust the process and trust yourself, have faith that if you put in the work, if you find your passion, you must always try and follow that path.
I’ve never thought of myself as being dominant person really, for a very long time I was really shy, reclusive, kept to myself and my endless world of books and films, creating my own little world, and for the most part surrounding myself with very few friends.
I can be extreamly social and the life of the party if I wanted to, because the other side of me is total party mayhem, it’s seems to be that I’m an impossible dicotomy of all or nothing existing in perfect harmony, such is My Gemini Nature ha ha!!!!
Being a creative, curious person, made me a very passionate explorere of all hidden things, especially, and for those who know me, with parents who are both clinical psychiatrists, reading voraciously every book in the house on human nature (of which, there were many), I fell inlove with the impossible intricacies of the human mind and sexuality in particular.
I’ve entered the world of Domination at 18, by meeting my mentor and initially what I thought would be a short term fun gig, turned into a lifetime of passion and long term love, that honestly made me feel so empowered and complete, I know that I could never let this go, even if I have a second career (which I do), yet I’ve been VERY fortunate to have a home based business for the most part, and I can spend time here, adoring every minute I spend with you all.
Finding My Goddess Power
And Learning To Use it
I’m a bit of a late bloomer, you might say, so on some level I still get surprised by how men are so reactive to my appearance.
As I’ve developed as a lifestyle Dominatrix, working with men, woman and couples I slowly learned how to incorporate my looks that was, in fact, a complete contridiction to how I scan to people when they first meet me, I’m bubbly, goofy, easy going and untamed, I can be impolsive and throw caution to the wind very easily, and it might appear like I would not be capable of being such a high level Dominatrix – however, I very much AM.
I was told by many, in person and via distance domination, that I can take them apart and intuitivly lead them in their chosen path even if they THEMSELVES don’t realize what they need.
I can be extreamly stict, vicious, unforging, or I can play extreamly complex role plays and be loving, nurturing and materna – whilst indulging in every kink you can imagine, because for me, it’s the highest form of connecting to a person – his or her secret desires, needs, fantasies, laying bare for me to see.
Becoming a Dominatrix Awakened My Inner Goddess- Exploring your desires with me will empower YOU as well
The best thing I can give my clients is the power and validation that they feel when they need to explore their deepest desires and fantasies, ESPECIALLY if their significant other does not understand their needs, or simply has no experience with their desired fetish or how to engage in a Domination Session. So this is why I absolutly love being a Dominatrix – it may only be my part time occupation, but it IS my full time passion !!!!
Empress Alina 
For me having mistresses is the way to go!!! Love how women have taken control over my feminization especially friend who’s measured fitted and keeps me in her old bras as well buying and wearing women’s clothes for her. We’ve only done one call but it was great as you dressed/turned and kept me as a girl with using magic potion in smelling girlish along with having breasts/girlish features/with petite girlish body and curves. I admit I’m a sissy who likes to dress up as a girl with dresses leggings yoga pants blouses women’s turtleneck sweaters boots heels makeup lipstick and and wigs. Soo much better then being a guy. Once summer slows down definitely will call on regular basis with you/Ms Erika and Ms Daphne for much needed feminization of me.
Thank you Ms Alina for a peek behind the Dominatrix curtain to the woman behind the kink! I know your pets must adore how well versed you are, how you can relate to them on a personal level. Interesting to know and see hw your seemingly diametric personality traits do work in tandem!
I think that’s a trait for many Dominant Women, that we can pull from both our fun sadistic side or from our nurturing side. We are Complex, dynamic, and most importantly, relatable! Ohhh!! let us not forget so much FUN! ????
See you around the Empire! ????
BTW submitting comments on your blog is a challenge but I found the submit button after rooting around! YAY!!
My Dear colleague and friend Mistress Erika xo
One of the VERY BEST perks of becoming a Domme is meeting fellow Dommes such as yourself and finally belonging somewhere truly and completly xo
I thank you for your amazing friendship, guidence and insights! I cherish you very much and hope to work together for mannnnnny years to come xo