Catagories Of Submission (2)

Catagories Of Submission (2)

By
Mistress Alina sky

Hello luvs~! Divine Empress Alina Sky Here, Welcome to Catagories Of Submission (2). This is the  much anticipated part 2 of my previous blog post
Catagories of Submission Part One

Where I continue the list for Catagoreis of Submissives/Submissions.
And of course, with the following catagories of submission, don’t ever feel like you neeed to fit into one catagory specifically: many of my clients find their interests vary to include several of the catagories listed, and as a proffessional Dominatrix, I find great pleasure in helping you explore all your interests, maybe even uncover kinks you never knew you would enjoy!

So let’s dive in, shall we, into Part Two of Catagories Of Submission! I hope you love reading this as much as I loved writing it ~ and please feel free to sound off and share your opinions in the comment section below!

Catagories Of Submission (2)
The list continues.

10. Domestic Discipline Bottoms
Domestic discipline or DD is a lifestyle that overlaps with BDSM in several ways, but not many people consider it to be BDSM. Instead, domestic discipline is a way to keep households running smoothly, with the man/husband/father retaining control over his wife/partner and children. Spanking is common in domestic discipline, even if other BDSM activities aren’t practiced.

DD type submission/lifestyles seems to be a traditional and somewhat conservative lifestyle and may complement certain religious beliefs, in which the male is in charge of the household spiritual wellbeing. (But I have seen those types of relationships when the Female is the Dominant and the male is the bottom.

 Duties / practices of Domestic Discipline Bottoms

• Caretaking of the household chores and maintenance
  Receiving punishment by the Dominant partner– especially spanking discipline
• Obeying the Dominant partner (which for the most part is the male without question.
• Praying – and being devout

11. The Bedroom Submissive
The Bedroom submissives are, for the most part totally uninterested in  BDSM as a 24/7 lifestyle and relationship whatsoever.
Instead , what they want is to enjoy the opportunity to give up power and control in side the Bedroom and during sex/sexual interactions.
When that is over, they simply return to “normal” behaviour, whatever there normal or even vanilla lifestyle is.
For the bedroom submissives. Submitting is desired and is perfectly fine fine as long as there is a specified  time and place limit.
Any expectations of submission outside the bedroom are usually unwelcome for them and not engaged nor practiced.
That type of submissive is also known as “The Sexual Sub”

Practices of a Bedroom Submissive include:

•  Being bound  or restrained for sexual purposes only. any bondage is only during sex
• Receiving stimulation and impact – That may include sensual domination impact play/ spanking discipline etc.
• Taking orders from their Bedroom Top but – only for the duration of the sexual scene and roleplay.
• Providing sexual pleasure as their Bedroom Dominant demands through oral, vaginal, manual, or anal sex
• Dressing up in lingerie lingerie, stocking heels, or even a cute custume like a french maid, if that is what their sexual top demands.

12. The Tribute Submissive
Those enjoy pampering their Dominant whenever possible.
They usually want to have a sort of a “Bratty Princess” type of Dominant which they will lavish with gifts and spoil her as often as possible. That duynamics works VERY well in long distance domination because often times the Princess Brat Dominant rejects and humiliates her Tribute Sub and taunts him that  he will never ever be good enough to be her sexual partner and the only way that Tribute Sub will get any attentions is when he grovels before her and makes sure she is well taken care of financially.

Example of Behavioral Traits of  Tribute Based Submission:

• Paying a dominant in any way possible –cash, goods, services, debt repayment, housing, spas gifts.
• Obeying all orders or commands
• Being humiliated  by their Princess Brat Spoiled Mistress with   humiliation play and verbal abuse and taunts.

13. The Rope Bunny
This type of submissives who just love to be tied up and bound in rope, are sometimes called rope bunnies.
They seek Dominants who are well versed in bondage and restraints, like the Art Of Shibari rope bondage.
They crave and live for the feeling of the rope bound tightly against their skin.  For the most part rope bunnies are female, and their rope dominant tops (usually referred to as a “rigger”) would male, but this isn’t always the case. This can be easily practiced by same sex relationship or femdomme aswell.

Rope Bunnies and Bondage Bottoms behavioral examples:

• They love Being bound – and overtime build up great endurance for longer period of restraint time.
• They may want to pose for photos when they are bound
• They usually practice the use of safe words – just in case something goes wrong

14. The devout My-Dom-Can-Do-No-Wrong Submissive
This type of submissive takes a worship approach to their God Like Dominant who in their eyes always has the answer and knowlaldge about all things.
The “My-Dom-Can-Do-No-Wrong” Submissive may not act this way towards anyone else BUT their Dominant and take their words, demands and actions as Law. This type of submissives truly assumes their Dominant has all the experience and knowledge in the world.

(*My Take on the Above Type of Sub though is this:
I tend to get a bit worried, as with this type of submissive can potentially fall victim to abusive people and really bad D/s situation that is extreamly exploitative.
The only time this dynamics works is if the Dominant does NOT take advantage and treats the submissive well.
It’s important if you are this type of sub, you should not ignore red flags of abuse in order not to end up in bad situations.
I therefor offer Mentoring sessions for you and your Dominant, or you can call me and set up a session where I you tell me very honestly about your particular situation and I give you my 100% honest diagnosis, because as a BDSM expert, sexpert and Dominatrix I can at least lend my vast experience if you are new to BDSM and D/s relationships.)

Behavioral Traits of This Type of Submissive:

• Talking about their Dominants,  – incessantly and constantly singing their Dom Praise, always telling and retelling stories about the Domionants
• Completelyand utterly Devoting themselves – entirely to their partners which they treat as God-Like and all knowing.
• Never contredicting and withholding their own opinions –Instead they comply and adopt their dom’s direction and beliefs
• Changing their entire manner and or appearances if their Dominant wishes them to

15. The Slaver-Than-Thou type submissive
Those are very easy to spot. Honestly you will never need to guess or wonder if someone is this type of submissive, simply7 because they’ll come right out and very proudly tell you what they are.
The Slaver-Than-Thou submissive is a 24/7 submissive and/or slave– and truly believe that other submissives should be that way as well, because to them, any other submission is not being a true submissive unless it’s total and complete slave sub to the core.

Behavioral examples of The Slaver-Than-Thou Submissive Type:

• Sometimes they may disliking being called a submissive – because they prefer to be called Slaves.
• They boast a full on and complete 24/7 submission at the very best and unflinchingly  devoting themselves to their Domionant.
• They very often will viewthemselves as the ultimate submissive slaves and take great pride in sacrificing more than others in their servitude to their Dominant.
• They tend to have no issue in avoiding safe words – because they believe that “true submissives” should never practice bounderies or safe words whatsoever.

16. The True Submissive
Those Submissives practice playing  out all of the common submissive tropes and lifestyle servitude to their dominants may earn the True Submissive Title.
These submissives are usually inexperienced in BDSM and a Dom/sub lifestyle and relationships so they will be  eager to prove themselves and their willingness to truly submit to a Dominant in any way they can, but this usually leads  to some issues.

Behavioral Examples of “True” Submission:

• Serving dominants – or anyone, not just their own
• Ignoring possible red flags – as their only desire is to be submissive
• Constantly putting others’ needs above their own – even in times when they should prioritize themselves
• Always acting timid or docile – which right awaymakes them easy to control (and possibly take advantage of

17. Submissive In Training
As a lifestyle Mistress and  an Online Dominatrix I provide a fair amount of Sub training  to those who seek it,  So, to me, a submissive in training can mean a plethora of things.
Often times, those things do not have a lot to do with any particular area or type of one particular submissive personality or direction.. First, If a client wishes to choose me as his Mistress, I look at his complete lifestyle to determine right from the start if it’s going to be his occassional escape or if he is trying to work the BDSM lifestyle into his actual real life, marriage, relationship and daily routine.

A submissive-in-training may also be a client I teach how to submit to a Mistress like me who is strictly their Mistress and they’re not in a relationship with, So that I can prepare  them for future relationships with a Dominant Partner. I can do this for Men and Women as needed, because if I teach you RIGHT from the START what is a Good Dom and what is an Abusive one, you can make sure your future BDSM lifestyle Submissive Journey will go a lot smoother and be a lot safer.
Either way, there’s definite need even for experience submissives to learn how to get the most out of their BDSM submission goals when they have a Pro Dominatrix like myself teaching them all they need to successfully fit BDSM into their daily lives, relationships or how to enjoy Domination sessions who satisfy their needs and help restore balance in their stressful lives.

Behaviors And Espects of the Submissive-in-Training Are Usually The Following: (Some of them I myself suggest those to the Submissive In Training):

• Beginner/Intermediat/Experet Submission  learning – From general BDSM  etiquette, to streamline expectations, choosing the right Dominant for them, incorporating ALL their kinks into their submission (From Cuckold to bondage, cross dressing and beyond. List is endless, and I am a full spectrum Mistress, specilizing in EVERY ONE of those areas).
• Continuous Experimenting – with as many different types of submission a hew sub is comfortable with so they can truly understand and figure out what kind of submissive they are, their submissive goals and what to look for in a Dominant  THIS IS HIGHLY CRITICAL to your submission future. You cannot choose a
• Proper Dom for yourself if you have NO idea what kind of sub you are and what are the perimeters of your submission.
  Seeking and Receiving punishment – Again, hard and soft bounderies will be taught here when a submissive is interested in corrective BDSM based punishments from spaking to tasks for errors, and beyond.
• Learing how to progress and improve after mistakes – Like in many aspects of life, When you live the BDSM lifestyle you should consider yourself a perpatual student, and that certainlyj applies to both Dominant and Submissives. Since errors and missteps are bound to happen  within the D/s dynamics, it’s important to empower submissives to make themselves heard, and UNDERSTOOD.
• Speak Up You Sub! When you are a begginer into the sumbission games, you are your most vulrnable, and sometimes so very eager to please, especially if you are submissive by nature and to your core. JUST NO. You can’t give ANYONE carte blanche upon you, your body and your life, just because you feel you cannot contradict your Dominant. Always make sure that the Safe, Sane and Consentual principles of BDSM are firmly in their place.
• I teach my Submissives-In-Training how to enhance and capitalize upon their submissive strong points and also how to   maneuver around possilbe obsticles as they strive to continously incorporate a BDSM lifestyle into your daily life and relationships in the world.
• Teaching my submissives to deeply look inward and properly identify  their own needs, goals, and inner strength
• Seeking protection – from their dom or trainer is a common behavior not only amongst newby subms but also a lot of experienced submissives need their Dominant to provide a safe space, I will teach you how to establish this.
• Creating a training plan – we will do this together.That will be including a timeline to fit your needs, individual steps you can start taking now, and a safe space for our sessions where you can truly open up without being judged.
• Keeping a submissive’s journal – I truly suggest it to ALL my clients because this is so imoprtant.  You would want to track feelings and experiences, how your submission made you feel at what moments and if you wish you can share some of this journals with me in our sessions.

Now that you have some clear ideas about what types of sumbissives and submissions are possible, you can have a better concept of the type of submission and type of submissive you are interested in having and becoming.
I hope you can also discern what types of situation to avoid, and what type of Dominant And Sessions you need to be looking for. and what to avoid. If you’re dominant,.

You can also use this two part blog post in order to help you  look for a suitable partner and/or incorporate aspects of submission via Sessions with a Mistress such as myself, into your lifestyle and relationship, so you will be able to live more authentically and explore, expend and empower yourself and your sexuality.