Erotic Response Based Domination
The Initial Outlook 

Erotic Response Based Domination sounds par for the course, when, in fact, it is much more complex than initially thought, and thusly an ongoing process of introspection and meticulously planned and crafted sessions, for both the Domme and her Submissives. 

Initially you would think that since a submissive is seeking Domination experiences and wishes to engage in sessions where they give themselves over to a Dominatrix, it is a forgone conclusion that they are aroused by such a prospect. 

The reality is, that in my Domination Practice, I never look at my role Intrinsically, as I wish to explore each of my submissives true starting point, in order to inform his or her journey. Truly explore all their complexities, and the genesis of their needs is crucial knowledge.

That is to say, my interests will always be to dig deeper, in ways that are far reaching, in order to discover the roots and the inner motivations of my submissives, and what led them to my doorstep in particular. 

Erotic Response Based Domination
Identify, Explore, Initiate

The Genesis of a submissive is crucial in determining what KIND of submissive I’m dealing with, and clarifying the path of their Domination Journey.

Since there are literally ENDLESS variables of D/s relationships, the creation of my unique “Fingerprint Domination Sessions” prov ed to be the only way I can deliver and meet each and every submissive experience and goals.

Therefore, when approaching each submissive, I will always make sure to establish total trust, so the dialog is as honest and as authentic as possible. 

Since I dominate both male and female submissives,  Fingerprint Session Method will always be applied first, in order to facilitate true development of our relationship.  Often times I will encourage self introspection as to isolate and identify  what has shaped my submissive in this particular direction, so we can start and explore the best possible way to achieve his or her desired session parameters.

Initiating the submissive Domination Journey can start only when both Dom and sub are on the same page with full understanding of potential boundaries and the type of session needed, as well as a complete understanding of the Dominatrix methodology and style. 

Erotic Response Based Domination
The Ultimate Trigger For Long Term Submissive Ownership

Essentially when engaging in a Domination Session, it’s commonly thought that this is a sexual act and that a submissive will respond sexually to whatever his or her Domme would do to them. 

Although, in its core, this is not specifically erroneous line of thought, I find The Dom/sub relationship much more complex than just actions and responses to them. 

When a submissive give themselves to a Domme their first and foremost intent is to please that dominatrix and do as they are told. 

I feel that a Domme must be super precise as to a correct course of action, and this is when boundaries must be established, but also a METHODOLOGY is a the very core of the matter, which is what I believe sets the bar and standards between  a mediocre session or a true sublime experience.

Erotic Response Based Domination
And why it’s the most effective method

When a submissive is told to do something and obey a certain set of rules, part of the push and pull game is that a submissive will (and should) test their Domme in a way that will forge their relationship.

When a Domme reigns in a sub, or compels them to obey without question, it may appear that the application of pain, restraints, corporal punishment or cage/chastity lock up might be effective for SOME, it’s definitely not for others. 

First, a Domme MUST find out exactly what reaction a sub will have, and which triggers will elicit an erotic response mind, body and spirit, a transcendent response that will bond the submissive on a very deep level to their Domme.

So basically this: Even if a sub is into pain, denial, whippings cages and such, the key is to find the exact measure that WILL elicit an erotic arousal type response versus USING PUNISHMENT AS A WAY TO GET TO A SUB TO YIELD TO THE DOMMES WILL – JUST BECAUSE THE SUBMISSIVE WAS IN SUCH DISCOMFORT, THEY GIVE IN.

That is a failed practice as far as I’m concerned, because the response from the submissive isn’t really genuine, and most certainly will not create the LONG TERM CONDITIONING a True Mistress aims to achieve with her submissives. 

Erotic Response Based Domination-The ONLY way to create long term D/s Bond

The moment a Domme is truly linked to what exactly will bring forth an erotic response from a submissive, The control and conditioning from that point can truly become the type of exchange that goes beyond simple kink or fetish play.

Whatever triggers those responses must be MASTERED TO PERFECTION by the Domme, because the whole point of BDSM play is to create a very deep, meaningful and TRANSFORMATIVE experience. The submissive can be conditioned perfectly and long term because a Mistress focuses on a devotion that is true long after the session is done with: And that can only happen if the very act of submission and every move the Domme makes elicit deep erotic response in it’s wake.

So, in conclusion, that is one of my thoughts and methodology in creating a Dominant/submissive long term relationship, that can Expend, Evolve and Elevate the experience for both parties.

 

Looking forward to play with each and every one of you!

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