Health Benefits Of Kink Play
By Mistress Alina Sky
Hello My Enchantrix Emprie Citizens !
What are the Benefits Of Kink Play?
In this blog post I will dive into the Health Benefits Of Kink Play.
I guess it might even surprise some of you that Kink Play is ESSENTIAL to your health, especially your mental health and well being.
It is said that Kinks Come From The Deepest Part Of Our Brain.
So it stands to reason that ignoring or suppressing our kinks and fetishes, never really works long term. – that I know for a FACT interacting with my own clients for the past decadeor so).
However, playing to our kinks, self exceptence of our kinks and fetishes and finding partners or proffessionals like myself, that help in your own Kink Play Journey, is of the outmost importance to your mental and physical well being.
So if you’ve ever wondered where kinks come from, and you need real validation as to the Health benefits Of Kink Play, Read on!
Kink Play ~ In Psychology 
To begin with the word KINK itself, seem to have negative connotations, and debased associations. Most folks relate kink to spankings, leather, whips, Strap-Ons etc. And whilst kink very depictions in popular culture ae endless and eager, they are HARDLY EVER accurate at all, they almost always miss the mark completely. (Just like the 50 shades of greay debacle).
Time and time again, movies and “popular’ mainstream cultrue will distort and misrepresent Kinks, ESPECIALLY when it comes to Bondage/Discipline, Dominance/Submission dynamics, Mistress and Submissive play, and Sadism/Masochism (BDSM),
They just keep getting kink wrong.
This is why my work as a Lifestyle Mistress and Virtual Dominatrix has not only been my passion but also a quest to help my clients reach a perfect kink equilibrium in their own lives.
Essentially, many of us tend to feel that if you have a kink as part of your sexual preferences, you will be stigmatized in some way.
The actual pshychology behind many kinks also tend to be off the mark and misunderstood.
Some of the FALSE concept of Kink Creation in us are :
- Kink was at some point believed to stem out of some sort of trauma – FALSE!
- Kink was perceived to ruin or some how destroy the tender idea of making love with your cherished partner- FALSE!
- Kink was considered abnormal, freakky, part of some mental illness –FALSE!
So I take a lot of pride in researching and fully understanding every kink and fetish my clients wish to explore, because I fully believe that Understanding how kink develops and everything that us kinky folks love to get out of it, is extreamly important and highly beneficial method towards normalizing, accepting, enjoying and embracing all the special aspects of human sexuality.
Health Benefits Of Kink Play
Your Sexual Identity
Your sexual identity development is critically important for your mental health. If you are super kinky, and you find it impossible to overcome stigma, and as a result you INTERNALIZE that stigma, it can easily cause depression, anxiety, huge self esteem and social functionality issues.
For myself, exploring and studying my clients kink development and sexual kinky identity, as well as my own hefty list of personal kinks, truly helped me understand how my clients and myself ended up developing resistance and coping mechanisms in a world and society that can prove to be quite judmental and non accepting.
Having said that, this is why LDW is such a remarkalbe place to practice your kinks and fetishes judgment free and with many like minded people all around you.
We’ve even created three free and interactive websites you can join which you can interact with our kinky community, thousands of our clients and the LDW Mistress squad is there, it’s like an X-rated version of Facebook, because we KNOW the imporance of embracing your sexual identity and kinks without shame, and with a fantastic and fun support system.
Check Those out :
- Our X-Rated Social Network ~ Enchantrix Empire
- Our Sissy and Girlie Fetish site ~ Get Girlie
- Fun Teasing and Femdom Network ~ Tease Mania
Health Benefits Of Kink Play
Kink Versus Fetish
There is a distinction between Kink and Fetish that when clarified, helps you, a kinkster and a fetish lover, to put thinks in prespective and to gain clarity so that you may explore in a more informed way.
KINK ~ is basically a broad term, that indicates and refers to a wide spectrum and areas of sexually consensual yet NON Traditional form of intimacy and sex practices/intimate encounters.
A good example of those are of couse Domination, Submission, impact play, gender switching with toys/strap-ons, erotic discipline r and sadomasochism to name a few.
FETISH ~ is refered to as a considerably more of a narrow terminology. This pertains to anyone who has an intimate and arousal response/triggers, erotic interest in non gential body parts / items.
Such as feet, armpits, legs, fabrics, costumes, article of clothing like panties, and other non-human objects and items. including ballons!
And guess WHAT !
Here at Enchantrix Empire we have a fotally fun website just for all the special fetih play amongst you!
You might find your special fetish right here : Unusual Phone Sex
Health Benefits Of Kink Play
Embrace Your Kink
Working with so many of my clients, building their trust and creating a safe place for them, has really taught me a lot. Many of my clients actually ended up seeking therapy, mainly because what they truly wish is to be heard, to be seen and accepted or validated without feeling shame. They wish most of all to discover how they can fully enjage and enjoy sexual pleasure whist encorporating their kinks/fetishes, without harming themselves or others.
In my Lifestyel Domiantion Practice I work with men, women and couples. I know how important Normalizing, embracing and accepting your kink often gets easier when you surround yourself with like minded people who fully understand and openly encourage and accept all that you are.
Because when you kink play with someone like myself, I can really offer insight and show you that you are not alone. And when I teach you how to fully accept andlove your kink, you will see how your own self acceptence, confidence and happiness you will have in your life.
A Safe Haven For All Your Desires
It’s always a point of great delight for me, when I get deep into my submissive’s minde. Understand their motivation and sexual needs, in order to provide the most intense session possible.
It’s also crucial to mention that it’s always important for me to demystify BDSM, because it’s not violent or cruel without sense.
BDSM and the D/s dynemics, with the RIGHT Dominant, of course, really transforms the submissive and empowers them to achieve greater pleasures, face their challanges successfuly, and expend their bounderies.
To me, Kink and Fetish in BDSM play and as a Mistress, is an exeptionally fun way to help my submissives a safe way to embrace their vulnerable side.
As my submissive, I will teach you to not only embrace and love your kink, but how to communicate with your sexual partners to bring them into your sexual preferences, in an open and non judgmental way.
Kink is not weird or abnormal in ANY way. Your sexual identity and your kinks/fetishes come from the deepest part of your brain, so trying to root them out is not only impossible, but a real waste of a spectacular opportunity to explore and find great pleasure and fulfilment!
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